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| World's Religious Traditions (Photo credit: Micah68) |
Webster's defines "tradition" as: 1. the handing down of
statements, beliefs, legends, customs, information, etc., from generation to
generation, esp. by word of mouth or by practice; 2. something that is handed
down; 3. a long established or inherited way of thinking or acting; 4. a
continuing pattern of cultural beliefs or practices; ...The definition goes on
for several more explanations, but I think you get the idea.
Growing up, we had a few traditions. Some were so entrenched in our lives that
we didn't realize they were traditions until we stopped practicing them. Things
like, Wednesday was spaghetti night; Saturday, we had beans and franks; and on
Sundays, we usually had a sit-down meal at around 2 o'clock. We called it
dinner, which cracks my daughters up every time I ask, "So what's for
dinner?" They call it supper.
Other traditions were explained in sincere, one-on-one talks, like when my Mom
told me why we went to church on Sunday or why we didn't put the Baby Jesus in
the crèche until Christmas morning.
As my children grew, I practiced some of these traditions without much thought;
they were simply conditioned responses to the stimuli of a particular time of
year. Perhaps it is getting older and having grandchildren that bring me to
this place of reflection.
My parents had a tradition that each year, when decorating the tree, they
always put up a red and gold-trimmed ribbon before anything else went on the
tree. The ribbon was from the first Christmas after they were married. This
little bedraggled ribbon was their only decoration that year.

Upon further reflection, I realized
that as the holy/holidays arrive, I planned to do what my parents and teachers
taught to do without realizing it was a learned response. This has made me stop
to look more closely at the reasons for each tradition, weeding out the ones
that no longer serve a useful purpose or have lost their meaning and focusing
in on the ones that are truly significant to my family and me. As Karen Armstrong
writes in her book, A Case for God, “…if
a ritual no longer evokes a profound conviction of life’s ultimate value, (we)
simply abandon it.”
Therefore, with careful consideration, we put candles in our windows, not
because folks seem to be returning to the days of lighting up their homes, but
as a simple reminder that the Light still shines bright in a world of darkness.
I love the symbolism of the candle and have used it often in my teaching and
ministry. The simplicity of its message of Light and Illumination is powerful.
We will put up a tree. I didn't have a tree several Christmases ago, and I
won't ever do that again. I found it to be very depressing. Our tree is
artificial - our contribution to the environment on many levels: more living
trees left to clean the air, less pollution from dead trees being burned or
thrown into dumps. The tree is symbolic of Life and Hope. "Ever"
green, it reminds us that Life goes on from season to season.
Along with decorating the tree, I will decorate the inside and outside of the
house. Outside, there will be fresh greens, red berries hung with ribbons on
the door and light posts. Inside, there will be vignettes of angels (I love my
angels...they remind me that I am never alone.) and snow people, which reminds
me to stay child-like...full of expectation, hope and wonder.
We will send greetings, but only to the
friends and family, who we won't see over the next few months. However, if this
isn’t done before the end of December, I am not going to stress out. Letters/cards
will be sent within the first few weeks of the New Year. (Once I got wrapped
around taking care of babies, working, etc. and didn't send them until April!)
Another tradition we have scaled down greatly is gift giving. Both Roger and I
felt the need to go back to the times when gifts were small and meaning-filled,
usually homemade, and always, personal. Again, as a way to help give to the
world, many of our gifts are fair trade.
Finally, we have several crèches (manger scenes). After all, this is why I
celebrate the holy days, for which I make no apologies. I find it sad that so
many feel the need to apologize to the world for practicing what they believe
in. My feeling is that no matter what your faith tradition, you should be able
to celebrate and share it with others.

I follow the tradition begun when my girls were small. The Baby will be
hidden until Christmas morning and, God willing that my mind doesn't go on
vacation, I will find Him and place Him in the manger before we do anything
else.
These will be the traditions that Roger and I follow. However, my daughters are
now all of an age where they are developing their own traditions. I have
watched with interest as they sort out the traditions they wish to keep. I try
to remain neutral to their decisions. After all, it is their lives.
Last year, I was thrilled to hear one of my granddaughters recite the
Chanukah prayer and light the Menorah that Roger made for my daughter and her
family. They are a blended family, observing both Christian and Jewish
traditions.
In closing, I pray that as we keep time-honored traditions or create new ones, on
whatever spiritual path we follow during this season of Light and Love, that
our lives and those close to us be enriched. May we be reminded of the many
blessings we all have, the many sacrifices of those who came before us, and the
many dreams for a world of Peace that we all hope for today and each day into the
New Year.
By Linda M. Rhinehart Neas - Second Year Ordinand at TNS